Why We Shout In Anger

I find this article very enlightening…

You know, we sometimes get caught in an argument that makes us, angry and yelling at each other like there is this world war coming up. Doesn’t matter if its between couples, friends or siblings, its really tiring to be into that situation. I hope when reading this, yow will consider not to resort to anger when dealing with conflicts….

 A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked.

‘Why do people shout in anger, shout at each other?’

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout.’

‘But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.’ asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small…’

The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’

He looked at his disciples and said.

‘So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.’

 

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Don’t let anger take control of you…

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5 Responses

  1. Aemy says:

    reading this, i wanna cry…..i was just shouting at someone i love on the phone………….. 🙁
    though i already apologized, but im still feeling bad about it…………………
    :((
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    • Rungitom says:

      You already apologized, its all gonna be fine. Just don’t let anger overcome you next time. :happy
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  2. Fadzmie says:

    And now I’m mind-boggled. How are we supposed to not letting our hearts get distant when we are mad? Is it by not mad? Or just by burying our anger deep inside? Haha.
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    • Rungitom says:

      I’m pretty sure there are many ways, you just have to figure that one out for yourself. :haha
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  3. Amanda says:

    seems legit.
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